I have apologized profusely for the abuse in the past but to no avail. I just want to feel live again. She says she will try and she sorry but she is not a sexual person and is not that affectionate. We call it Breaking Free Workshop. My weight is in the normal range and I still have women younger ones that flirt with me. Nothing wrong.
We are now seeing a counsellor, but what if he is just wired to not want sex? Most women have a hard time understanding this. When it gets that bad, he tries to stay civil but the contempt leaks out at times and this confuses you. It is heartbreaking to see the pain that not having sex is causing couples. She should be able to say no, and he should sacrifice for her. I never had an issue with being jealous, however things started to change the second time around. I have little hope that path will result in any change.